Anchor · for couples
A communication coach that sits in your conversation — grounded in your real chat history, here to help you understand each other better.
Anchor is a communication coach, not a therapist. It does not provide medical or therapeutic advice.
Two surfaces
Import your WhatsApp or iMessage history and start right away. Reflect is your private space to process a hard moment, draft what you want to say, or just be heard. Your partner never sees Reflect.
When you're ready, invite your partner. Together is a shared chat where the coach is in the room with both of you — never adjudicating, never taking sides, helping you hear each other.
How it works
Import your WhatsApp or iMessage history. The coach reads what's already there — months of context, not a blank slate.
Talk it through privately. Draft what you want to say. Get a second perspective before you speak. Nothing leaves Reflect.
When the moment is right, invite your partner. Together opens — same coach, now in the room with both of you.
macOS helper
AnchorImporter is a small notarized macOS app that imports your iMessage thread with your partner. Run it once, upload over an encrypted connection, then quit it.
Install Anchor, import your history, and try Reflect tonight. Invite your partner whenever you're ready.